New Developments!

There has been a lot of changes happening in our home over the last few months. I have not had any time to sit down and create a post. Truth be told, there was not much too interesting to share. I have just been busy, and although I could write a lot about it...it just did not seem like anything worth reading. Everyone has busy lives, that is nothing out of the ordinary. Now that things are (sort of) settling down, I figured it was a better time to share. 

I gave birth to our second baby boy this past Monday the 18th. He was a planned C section, born at 7:48 in the morning. He was and is beautiful. Healthy weight and height and such a cuddle bug. I was very uncomfortable at the end of this pregnancy and I spent a lot of time in our bath tub trying to ease the pain I was feeling. I was very ready to get baby boy out of there. We spent only 2 full days and nights in the hospital and were let go by lunch time that Wednesday. Since it was a second C section the doctors said if I was feeling up to it and the baby was doing well then we had the option to go home earlier than the three full days they normally keep a C section patient. Of course I wanted to go home. There is no real sleep when you're in the hospital, and I was feeling stiff from being in the bed most the time. Plus my husband had to be home (besides delivery day) with our toddler the entire time I was in the hospital and I wanted to at least be home to give the boy some sense of normalcy.

We have been home a week now and adjusting ok. The first 5 days home I slept downstairs with the baby...just to get him used to his bassinet and to see what his sleep schedule would be like. I did the same with our first when he was born. I did not want my hubs to wake every time the baby had to feed. We are back in our room now and to my surprise this baby is actually letting me get some sleep in. Number one was up every three hours almost to the T...this babe is giving me a little more time that that. Last nite we only woke twice! He slept for 5 hours straight, woke, ate, fell back asleep for another 2 hours and woke at 530 am. He sleeps a lot during the day which is nice b/c then I can spend time with my toddler as well as get things done around the house. Fingers crossed he continues this behavior. I was and still am a little nervous about being by myself with the two kids. Not safety wise, just busy wise. My toddler is on the run and into everything, pushing my buttons and not listening all the time. Now I have an infant who is breast feeding and that takes time out of the day for which I have to sit and cannot chase the other one around. I sure hope the amount of busy I will be aids in the baby weight loss!! Haha.

As much as getting up early is never really wanted, I am enjoying it because my hubs gets up at 500am and for the last few days I can enjoy a coffee with him while he gets ready for work. The toddler is still asleep until about 730 and the baby usually falls back asleep after feeding, so I actually get some quiet/relax time. I need that iced coffee every morning and it is nice to enjoy it in peace!

Anyways, this is the newest development in our little corner of CT. I really and truly hope to find time a couple days a week to sit and write more. I do love to write. With the nicer weather and farmers markets, etc there will be so many fun things to talk about. I hope to try some new spring/summer recipes and share them here also. For those that read this, thanks for just looking! For those that don't, well I really write for me...so its ok.

Time to get the toddler up from bed. Until next post!

xo

Happy New Year! I'm back...I think!

The hub bub of 2014 has come to an end, and things are settling down around here. For a few months I just needed a break from writing. To be honest, there wasn't too much going on in that time that I felt was worth a blog post. I have a almost 1.5yr old that takes up the majority of my time and whenever I even thought about sitting down I couldn't. He is everywhere, climbing, "loving" our pets a little too much, getting in to ANYTHING his little hands could pry open, etc. If you have kids, you know exactly what I'm talking about. I felt bad about slipping with my writing, but I'm no fool, I know my blog is not famous and there aren't people waiting for posts. Which then, makes me feel not so bad. But I do appreciate those that take a moment and read once a post is up. So....back to 2015!

This year our family is growing by one! We just found out that its another boy! He will be here around mid May. I cannot believe that it is only 4 months away. I feel like we just found out we were expecting. So now it is time to work on another room and get it baby ready. I wont lie, a huge part of me was hoping for a girl. I would love to have one of each. I think my husband is all set with two kids and I am on the fence because of that little girl I want. But we will see what happens down the road. We also want to buy a house in the next couple years and that is really most important. We love our little home now, but we rent it from my in laws and it is small. Too small for our growing family. Two kids are fine for now! 

Another change this year (which I am probably nuts for attempting right now) is that I am going back to school this semester. I have been in college for more years than I care to admit, but money or work or lack of motivation always stood in my way. I finally decided that I need to make moves in terms of a career. I will be 31 in 2 days and I don't even have my associates. I never qualified for aid so I never could afford school. I finally sat down with someone at the college and was approved for full financial aid....most likely because I am not working and have a child/one on the way. I kinda think that's lame however. It shouldn't be just because I have dependents. That is a whole other discussion, I am grateful to finally be covered and afford to take some classes. I am hopefully working towards the major "Pathways to Teaching" with the goal in mind of teaching reading and writing at a middle school level. That could change, but Id like to stay in the teaching field. I will be taking 2 classes online this semester which starts Jan. 20 and goes right until May. So I have to squeeze out finals right around the time we are having a baby!! I'm determined though...we'll see how it goes.

I am not one for making resolutions for the new year...I feel like a lot of the time its pressure to stick to something and you quit. Many people don't, but its not my thing. It does however get me to reflect on the year prior and think about how I can change certain things or do things differently this year. I wont promise my self anything, but I do think more. I love this quote, its pretty much the way I'm thinking about 2015...Now, it is not meant to be literal, the chances of me swimming in the rain are slim haha, but I want to keep things simple. I love the idea of simple living. Buy a plant and water it...I can do that!!! Invite a friend over for coffee or tea and have a meaningful conversation...I need to do this more often. Come winter I tend to stay cooped up at home because I do not like the cold. Id rather stay in my sweats near the wood stoves. I need to venture out more, see friends and have them here. Adult time is a must. Id like to be more creative. I found this WONDERFUL blog and her style is everything I love. I have used some of her ideas as inspiration in my home, and I would like to do more. I just need to get motivated and do it. Her blog is here : http://natalienoack.blogspot.com/
It is my most favorite spot to visit these days.

 Lastly, LET GO OF WHAT DOESNT MAKE YOU HAPPY. I am not typically an unhappy person. I love to laugh and have fun, but there are a few people in our lives that are more negative than positive. Any time we have conversations with them they always have something or someone to complain about or talk about etc and it is tiring. In my home I put inspirational sayings in frames in each of our rooms, so that we can take a moment and think about the good in our lives. Also should these people ever stop over, they can see that we choose joy...not negativity. I know you cant always be happy, and things occur in life that are not always good...but I try to remember that it could be worse. I've tried to remind my husband of this when he gets stressed about money. We have a home, a healthy child, we have money though it may not be a lot, he has a good job, and family that we can count on. For that we are truly blessed. 

I hope to have a chance to sit and write more. With the nursery project coming I will try and share as it moves a long. I hope everyone had a wonderful end to 2014 and that 2015 brings new and exciting things, positivity, and laughter. 

Happy New Year to you!! 

xo